Every year on February 14, store shelves fill with heart-shaped chocolate, oversized teddy bears, and red roses. For some, Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and romance. However, for some sad losers, Valentine’s Day serves as one of the most uncomfortable, overrated days of the year. On this treacherous day, single men and women buy their own chocolate, go on their own dates, and cry lonely tears. Travis Wetzel (11) knows this harsh reality all too well.
“For me, Valentine’s Day is just kind of lame because it is just another one of those holidays with little to no meaning. For example, the only thing I got for Valentine’s Day were the comic books I ordered,” Wetzel said.
On the other hand, for some, complications on Valentine’s Day arrive as a result of the sheer amount of gifts that you have to buy. Roses for one, teddy bears for another, and you can’t forget that the other one is allergic to chocolate. This sticky situation is one which only occurs on holidays like Valentine’s Day, and this Valentine’s Day, Travis Langley (11) drew the short straw.
“I barely have any room to walk and I can’t even get into my classroom without them bothering me. It’s like I have a new girlfriend everyday and they all want to fight for me. It’s been a real struggle, especially on Valentine’s Day,” Langley said.
With all this being said, while some students choose to dread the holiday, others see it as an opportunity to show your love and appreciation for the ones you care about the most. Irving Casaca (11) takes this approach to Valentine’s Day. For him, every day is a day to show his love and appreciation, however Valentine’s Day just gives him a good reason to show it.
“From my experience, Valentine’s Day can be a 50/50 shot. Either you’re down or you’re up, but when you are up I love to get the people I love the most the best gifts I can get. I believe this is the best way to show my affection,” Casaca said.
With so many different perspectives on the holiday, it’s hard to determine which one is correct. The truth is, Valentine’s Day seems to reflect whatever mindset people bring into it. For some, it highlights loneliness. For others, it creates stress. And for many, it simply offers an excuse to spread kindness, whether through candy, compliments, or quality time. In the end, Valentine’s Day does not come with a single definition. It can be overrated, overwhelming, exciting, or meaningful all at the same time. What matters most is how individuals choose to approach it. Whether spending the day with a significant other, laughing with friends, or simply enjoying a favorite hobby, February 14 is ultimately just another day to appreciate the people and things that make life enjoyable. No matter the circumstances, the day remains what each person decides to make of it. Whether you’re sad and lonely, or happy and glad, one thing will always be true. Valentine’s Day is not that bad.
